Dating and moving on
When you have more fun dating, you will be more motivated to dating until you find love.
It doesn’t matter whether you write it down on paper, use a To-Do list app, or use the “Like” feature in your Meet Mindful account. I first experienced online browsing fatigue when I used Ok Cupid.Why don’t you give me your regular email address so we can reach other more easily?” You want to take the email offline because it builds momentum in the budding relationship. In addition, when you take the email exchange off site, you reduce the chances for either one of you being distracted by other singles while corresponding with each other.This is like bringing your date to a singles event, you don’t want that! As a general rule, women (or the feminine figure in the relationship) like to be pursued.So, to the masculine energies who are reading this: court your partner, be assertive, ask for a number and set up a time to talk.It’s important to be specific about the time to call.Don’t be vague like “Call me tomorrow afternoon.” Set a specific time: “Tomorrow evening between 7 and 8.” This reduces the change for missed calls or calling back and forth—which ruins the feel-good anticipation and positive momentum of receiving a phone call from someone you’re interested in.Writing first gives you three advantages: What about the people who don’t respond to your messages?People don’t respond for a number of reasons that a.) may have nothing to do with you (don’t take it personally) and b.) you may never find out (don’t waste your energy).Talking on the phone BEFORE you go out with them also builds trust.You get a good feel for whether or not they are someone you want to spend time with.